"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Let the scars guide.

darktriadism

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Since ending a BPD relationship and swallowing the red pill and finding this site, it took a couple of months to finally manage to get my life on track and better.
These scars will help avoid the crazies all your life.

Just dodged another bullet.

This super cute chick being interested and playing back with the negs while being super submissive and seemingly in frame at all times.

Well her push pull seemed like normal girl push pulls, but seemed familiar to the BPD I knew before.

At the moment spinning other plates and having a strong frame, felt that gut feeling and checked out her Instagram.

-Dog obsessed
-Openly talked about her having depression and bulimia
-Hardcore push pull and coquette
-Definitely rotating other guys
-Saw her around with betas strolling around the college
-Talked about narcissism


Overtly told her that it was awesome knowing her but we are too similar to get along.

Im not looking to invest another minute into her unless she just tells me to bang her at HER place. How do you game this girl for a PnD?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you go visit the devil for Dinner if he called you up wanting to hang?
 

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First, you say you dodged a bullet.

Then, your entire post sounds like you're screening her for an LTR.

Finally, you ask for help with a ONS.

Figure out what you want first.
 

darktriadism

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First, you say you dodged a bullet.

Then, your entire post sounds like you're screening her for an LTR.

Finally, you ask for help with a ONS.

Figure out what you want first.
I generally screen women I want to invest in even in a rotation.
I've invested 4 days on her and know an ONS would be an ROI.
Just trying to cash out and was looking for an opinion on how to do that with her.
 
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