"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lessons I'm glad I Learned

No.Danny

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I guess I'm back posting, so I thought I'd do a little thing where I talk about lessons I'm glad I learned.(ik not like the tittle says that) but please do join in guys. I'll try to do 1 every week.
Lesson 1: Denying I had girls interested
So when I started to get into all of this one mistake I would make was if a girl would ask if she was the only one or if any other girls had interest in me I would turn into Romeo and explain how she's the only one blah blah. Nowadays I just dismiss those types of questions answering with a "might be" "yeah, right now" ";)" or changing the subject. Women are herd like fellas and also very competitive. If they think or know other woman want you, instant turn on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Infern0

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My lessons, (and they are big ones, if i can only pick three would be)

1. When a girl is adding you on facebook, texting you etc she doesn't want to just be friends, but if you don't get to the point quickly, she will end up just wanting to be friends

2. Never show girls anything they have done has uncentered you, ie dont show her any anger, bitterness, sadness

3. Never chase women, that's their job and they hate it when you do it
 

No.Danny

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Lesson 2: Give Each Other Time To Miss Yourselves
I used to be one of those people. Constant communication. Texting, calling anything 24/7. But nowadays I've learned better. I can't stand to talk to a person that much especially if I see them basically everyday. I prefer a FaceTime call for about 30 minutes maybe an hour max every few days to the boring texting communication. Less you talk. Less chances of messing up. More attraction building up. More mystery.
 

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Lesson 1.. control your emotions around woman.. dont let them know your weakness.. dont let them get you angry or upset..
watch and observe them.


Lesson2. Don't let them get away with disrespect or rudeness, let them know you mean business.


Lesson3. Don't talk to much, be less available, and don't be too fuking nice to her, until she is proving her worth to you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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