"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lessons I'm glad I Learned

No.Danny

No.Danny

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I guess I'm back posting, so I thought I'd do a little thing where I talk about lessons I'm glad I learned.(ik not like the tittle says that) but please do join in guys. I'll try to do 1 every week.
Lesson 1: Denying I had girls interested
So when I started to get into all of this one mistake I would make was if a girl would ask if she was the only one or if any other girls had interest in me I would turn into Romeo and explain how she's the only one blah blah. Nowadays I just dismiss those types of questions answering with a "might be" "yeah, right now" ";)" or changing the subject. Women are herd like fellas and also very competitive. If they think or know other woman want you, instant turn on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Infern0

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My lessons, (and they are big ones, if i can only pick three would be)

1. When a girl is adding you on facebook, texting you etc she doesn't want to just be friends, but if you don't get to the point quickly, she will end up just wanting to be friends

2. Never show girls anything they have done has uncentered you, ie dont show her any anger, bitterness, sadness

3. Never chase women, that's their job and they hate it when you do it
 
No.Danny

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Lesson 2: Give Each Other Time To Miss Yourselves
I used to be one of those people. Constant communication. Texting, calling anything 24/7. But nowadays I've learned better. I can't stand to talk to a person that much especially if I see them basically everyday. I prefer a FaceTime call for about 30 minutes maybe an hour max every few days to the boring texting communication. Less you talk. Less chances of messing up. More attraction building up. More mystery.
 
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Lesson 1.. control your emotions around woman.. dont let them know your weakness.. dont let them get you angry or upset..
watch and observe them.


Lesson2. Don't let them get away with disrespect or rudeness, let them know you mean business.


Lesson3. Don't talk to much, be less available, and don't be too fuking nice to her, until she is proving her worth to you
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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