"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lessons I'm glad I Learned

No.Danny

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I guess I'm back posting, so I thought I'd do a little thing where I talk about lessons I'm glad I learned.(ik not like the tittle says that) but please do join in guys. I'll try to do 1 every week.
Lesson 1: Denying I had girls interested
So when I started to get into all of this one mistake I would make was if a girl would ask if she was the only one or if any other girls had interest in me I would turn into Romeo and explain how she's the only one blah blah. Nowadays I just dismiss those types of questions answering with a "might be" "yeah, right now" ";)" or changing the subject. Women are herd like fellas and also very competitive. If they think or know other woman want you, instant turn on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Infern0

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My lessons, (and they are big ones, if i can only pick three would be)

1. When a girl is adding you on facebook, texting you etc she doesn't want to just be friends, but if you don't get to the point quickly, she will end up just wanting to be friends

2. Never show girls anything they have done has uncentered you, ie dont show her any anger, bitterness, sadness

3. Never chase women, that's their job and they hate it when you do it
 

No.Danny

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Lesson 2: Give Each Other Time To Miss Yourselves
I used to be one of those people. Constant communication. Texting, calling anything 24/7. But nowadays I've learned better. I can't stand to talk to a person that much especially if I see them basically everyday. I prefer a FaceTime call for about 30 minutes maybe an hour max every few days to the boring texting communication. Less you talk. Less chances of messing up. More attraction building up. More mystery.
 

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Lesson 1.. control your emotions around woman.. dont let them know your weakness.. dont let them get you angry or upset..
watch and observe them.


Lesson2. Don't let them get away with disrespect or rudeness, let them know you mean business.


Lesson3. Don't talk to much, be less available, and don't be too fuking nice to her, until she is proving her worth to you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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