"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lessons I'm glad I Learned

No.Danny

No.Danny

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I guess I'm back posting, so I thought I'd do a little thing where I talk about lessons I'm glad I learned.(ik not like the tittle says that) but please do join in guys. I'll try to do 1 every week.
Lesson 1: Denying I had girls interested
So when I started to get into all of this one mistake I would make was if a girl would ask if she was the only one or if any other girls had interest in me I would turn into Romeo and explain how she's the only one blah blah. Nowadays I just dismiss those types of questions answering with a "might be" "yeah, right now" ";)" or changing the subject. Women are herd like fellas and also very competitive. If they think or know other woman want you, instant turn on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My lessons, (and they are big ones, if i can only pick three would be)

1. When a girl is adding you on facebook, texting you etc she doesn't want to just be friends, but if you don't get to the point quickly, she will end up just wanting to be friends

2. Never show girls anything they have done has uncentered you, ie dont show her any anger, bitterness, sadness

3. Never chase women, that's their job and they hate it when you do it
 
No.Danny

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Lesson 2: Give Each Other Time To Miss Yourselves
I used to be one of those people. Constant communication. Texting, calling anything 24/7. But nowadays I've learned better. I can't stand to talk to a person that much especially if I see them basically everyday. I prefer a FaceTime call for about 30 minutes maybe an hour max every few days to the boring texting communication. Less you talk. Less chances of messing up. More attraction building up. More mystery.
 
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Lesson 1.. control your emotions around woman.. dont let them know your weakness.. dont let them get you angry or upset..
watch and observe them.


Lesson2. Don't let them get away with disrespect or rudeness, let them know you mean business.


Lesson3. Don't talk to much, be less available, and don't be too fuking nice to her, until she is proving her worth to you
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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