"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lessons From A Gigolo

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No wonder there are so few real DJ's here. An example of how far this sh*t can take someone is given, and the gut reaction here is to ridicule and flame them.

And it started with a woman. How convenient.
 

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Good story and analysis coldcoal :) I enjoyed the read! Really shows what one can do without money or muscle, but purely from the way they project themselves in the world and how they simply resonate the feeling of 'im a cool guy that you all want to be around :D' towards others.

All was good apart from some of the annoying interruptions >:| *cough*iqqi*


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It amazes me how many threads here get interrupted and off-topic because of some inter-personal bickering or whatever. Jeez.

I know exactly what you mean about connections and friends. I mean, have you ever read a little book called "The Godfather"? All Don Corleone asks is your friendship...good advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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coldcoal

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It has been requested this thread be removed for reasons not related to what has been said here.

This thread is not being removed because of Iqqi. As much as I would love to see it, she deserves no blame. It's cool.
 
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