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Master Don Juan
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lessons From A Gigolo
- Thread starter coldcoal
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mikelo2k
Senior Don Juan
Good story and analysis coldcoal I enjoyed the read! Really shows what one can do without money or muscle, but purely from the way they project themselves in the world and how they simply resonate the feeling of 'im a cool guy that you all want to be around ' towards others.
All was good apart from some of the annoying interruptions >:| *cough*iqqi*
Mikelo2k
I enjoyed the read! Really shows what one can do without money or muscle, but purely from the way they project themselves in the world and how they simply resonate the feeling of 'im a cool guy that you all want to be around ' towards others.All was good apart from some of the annoying interruptions >:| *cough*iqqi*
Mikelo2k
BWSL2
Senior Don Juan
It amazes me how many threads here get interrupted and off-topic because of some inter-personal bickering or whatever. Jeez.
I know exactly what you mean about connections and friends. I mean, have you ever read a little book called "The Godfather"? All Don Corleone asks is your friendship...good advice
I know exactly what you mean about connections and friends. I mean, have you ever read a little book called "The Godfather"? All Don Corleone asks is your friendship...good advice
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.