"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lesson: Beer and Temperature

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I have a beer fridge and I have about 30 beers in there. Well, I decided to take the topmost one (and it's one of those crappy fridge/freezer attempted fridges) and I opened it up, and it started fizzling for two minutes. :mad:

Lesson is, don't let your beer freeze, it's STILL frozen 20 minutes later, and I still can't drink the damned thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Docs said:
I have a beer fridge and I have about 30 beers in there. Well, I decided to take the topmost one (and it's one of those crappy fridge/freezer attempted fridges) and I opened it up, and it started fizzling for two minutes. :mad:

Lesson is, don't let your beer freeze, it's STILL frozen 20 minutes later, and I still can't drink the damned thing.


This just proves my point that you are a troll :kick:

Skinny beer drinking keyboard jokey, troll, hiding underneath a supposed troll hunter. You are taking sh1t into these forums, making it not fun. Leave us alone.
 

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Get out of my threads. The fact you're commenting in every thread I post in puts you in a bad light.

Show me a post that you have made that proves a useful architecure for fellow posters to learn from, and I'll show you twenty of mine.

Secondly, I like my beer.
-You're oh so close djbr, correct that bold tag :)
 

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I will keep it simple. The color stuff is too much goddamn work!

Men can see only three colors: black, white, and colorful

:crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Docs said:
:).
It's now about 45 minutes and I still haven't been able to have a sip of my beer yet.
I guess you're not going to. When that happens it tastes like sh1t.

Well, at least here. We're usually at 25+ degrees Celsius, and that may have some influence.
 

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What I think happened, was that fizzing was actually my alcohol flying out, leaving my frozen water (because water freezes, alcohol doesn't).

Eeep! :(
-I want to live where you live!
 

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Docs said:
What I think happened, was that fizzing was actually my alcohol flying out, leaving my frozen water (because water freezes, alcohol doesn't).
Makes sense. And crappy beer.

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Eeep! :(
-I want to live where you live!
I am showing you the good side :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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:O Beer is yummy. I want my whiskey sadly I drank it all. :( Beer topic :O I like Molson :D oooh and of course coorss
 

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Bah, I just had my first sip, and I am right, the alcohol was the fizzle.

Son of a biatch. It's only been a hour and a half
 

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You're Canadian, and in the Army, and you didn't know that you shouldn't let your beer freeze? Are you from Alberta or something? Damn, shame on you!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I found this out a few months ago....I had a golf bag in the garage full of beer, and i decided to have a few, since my inhouse stock run out.....well, it was all crap (froze in the garage)

6 cans - out in the trash.:cuss:
 
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