Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not unless you're Leo DiCaprioDo women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
As I pointed out in the initial post the preferred median age is 23 to all men regardless of age.I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.
Yes, I have seen the data points on that. Most men find women most attractive between 20-24.As I pointed out in the initial post the preferred median age is 23 to all men regardless of age.
When a woman meets Leo (and she is not rich, or a celebrity), then he will 99% be the best option she ever had. So basically every women he meets would like to settle down with him, especially at that age.Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.

These days I'd say most women start looking to settle down at 27/28.I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.
Point 9:14....
“By the time girls reach 25, they’re looking for more — they’re looking to get married and settle down. That is not what Leo wants. He does not want a family and does not want to be around women who may press him for that.”
Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If you were dating someone rich and famous wouldn't you want more after dating them for 4 or 5 years?I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.
Point 9:14....
“By the time girls reach 25, they’re looking for more — they’re looking to get married and settle down. That is not what Leo wants. He does not want a family and does not want to be around women who may press him for that.”
Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.
That's like viewing reality through some black/white glasses. In other words this guy reduces the huge complexity of male - female relationships to female age and her instincts to have children.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Women get pissed when a man follows the same playbook all of them do.The average hot chic with a line of guys wanting to be with her. She’s has abundance and can go through men just like Leo does with the women. Why doesn’t the hot chic select from the huge line of betas fighting over her? She cherry picks through the best Chads she can get. Leo is using the same playbook..
Chalk it up to hypocrisy. A woman burning through a stable of men is completely normal while a guy doing the exact same thing is a predator.
You missed CRPs point then that girls 20-25 is at their true core personality at that age, after that they start paying games and are playing roles to real in "the" guy... If you date over that the chance is real that the person you meet isn't really that person after she has reached her goal of getting knocked up, wifed up etc. So click bait? Nope.I skimmed through the video which is basically a click-bait because he doesn't reveal anything.
I'd like to make 2 points: 1. who really cares what an out of shape multi-millionaire hypocrite whose life revolves around private planes and yachts yet claims he wants to save the planet does?
2. Some boys (because with that mindset they're not really men) look up to DiCaprio because he changes the girls at 25, supposedly getting them while at their peak attractiveness. Well, it's not the getting, it's the keeping that counts. So that tells me that either him or the girls or both are low quality, that's why they can't remain together.
Women are at their core personality all the time...whatever roles they play, it can't last more than the first couple of months...now if a guy is dumb enough to knock up a woman that fast in a relationship, then it's on him.You missed CRPs point then that girls 20-25 is at their true core personality at that age, after that they start paying games and are playing roles to real in "the" guy... If you date over that the chance is real that the person you meet isn't really that person after she has reached her goal of getting knocked up, wifed up etc. So click bait? Nope.
Oh I see....Re click bait, I was referring to the video in OP.
I think it's more hind brain/lizard brain. I think at 25, women will behave in a way that demos he biology despite her feminist programming.I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.
Point 9:14....
“By the time girls reach 25, they’re looking for more — they’re looking to get married and settle down. That is not what Leo wants. He does not want a family and does not want to be around women who may press him for that.”
Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.