"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Leonardo DiCaprio Reveals Why He Won't Date Girls Over 25 Years Old

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm more surprised he doesn't go younger lol. What's the age of consent over there? 18? It's 16 here. It'd be so funny if he was British and was tagging tonnes of hot 16 year olds and leaving them at 20 or whatever. Media would go even crazier.
Didn't James Franco try to bang some hot 17 year old Brit girl?
 

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I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.


Point 9:14....

“By the time girls reach 25, they’re looking for more — they’re looking to get married and settle down. That is not what Leo wants. He does not want a family and does not want to be around women who may press him for that.”

Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.
As I pointed out in the initial post the preferred median age is 23 to all men regardless of age.
The point is not discuss celebrity's at all. The point I'm making that he is just doing the natural thing that most want to do or are already doing.
To do it you need to have the abundant mindset of course which is the very thing that is stopping loads of guys from dating and spinnin' those plates.
 
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As I pointed out in the initial post the preferred median age is 23 to all men regardless of age.
Yes, I have seen the data points on that. Most men find women most attractive between 20-24.

I would be most physically attracted to a 21 or 22 year old right now.
 

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Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.
When a woman meets Leo (and she is not rich, or a celebrity), then he will 99% be the best option she ever had. So basically every women he meets would like to settle down with him, especially at that age.

Average Joe might meet the same woman and notice how she'll string him along, holding out for a better option ( a Leo). Also age is important. Between 25 and 30 women get desperate as the biological alarm starts ringing.

If you would date (prime )Jessica Alba, wouldn't you like to settle down? 41UW-QuTYfL._AC_.jpg
 

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I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.


Point 9:14....

“By the time girls reach 25, they’re looking for more — they’re looking to get married and settle down. That is not what Leo wants. He does not want a family and does not want to be around women who may press him for that.”

Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.
These days I'd say most women start looking to settle down at 27/28.
 

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Props to Leonardo. Wise man. He dates them when they are at their best and changes them out every few years.

I've read several comments from articles regarding this storyline and the women despise it while the dudes love it. Haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.


Point 9:14....

“By the time girls reach 25, they’re looking for more — they’re looking to get married and settle down. That is not what Leo wants. He does not want a family and does not want to be around women who may press him for that.”

Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.
If you were dating someone rich and famous wouldn't you want more after dating them for 4 or 5 years?
 

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I skimmed through the video which is basically a click-bait because he doesn't reveal anything.
I'd like to make 2 points: 1. who really cares what an out of shape multi-millionaire hypocrite whose life revolves around private planes and yachts yet claims he wants to save the planet does?
2. Some boys (because with that mindset they're not really men) look up to DiCaprio because he changes the girls at 25, supposedly getting them while at their peak attractiveness. Well, it's not the getting, it's the keeping that counts. So that tells me that either him or the girls or both are low quality, that's why they can't remain together.
 

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That's like viewing reality through some black/white glasses. In other words this guy reduces the huge complexity of male - female relationships to female age and her instincts to have children.

This fetish with 18,19 yrs old girls is ridiculous...man, those are still in high school, are you guys for real? They haven't yet fully developed physically, mentally or emotionally, yet they're presented as some ideal. Furthermore, poor quality slowly reveals itself since a young age...you can already see the 'bad girls' when they're 15 or so...they most probably will still be crazy at 20 and 35...so why would you want to deal with them? Just because they're 20?
 

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He has an abundance of young attractive females who want to be around him. Even Jeff Bezos’s girlfriend lost her mind when she met him. He‘s a celebrity with a huge social circle, money and the ability to do whatever he wants. He’s an example of a hypergamous jackpot for these women.

Now look at the flip side. The average hot chic with a line of guys wanting to be with her. She’s has abundance and can go through men just like Leo does with the women. Why doesn’t the hot chic select from the huge line of betas fighting over her? She cherry picks through the best Chads she can get. Leo is using the same playbook..

Chalk it up to hypocrisy. A woman burning through a stable of men is completely normal while a guy doing the exact same thing is a predator. Kudos to Leo, he has done what most men could only dream of. He gets them while their in their prime while our boy Pete Davidson has found a gold mine burning through the post wall damaged ladies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The average hot chic with a line of guys wanting to be with her. She’s has abundance and can go through men just like Leo does with the women. Why doesn’t the hot chic select from the huge line of betas fighting over her? She cherry picks through the best Chads she can get. Leo is using the same playbook..

Chalk it up to hypocrisy. A woman burning through a stable of men is completely normal while a guy doing the exact same thing is a predator.
Women get pissed when a man follows the same playbook all of them do.
 

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I skimmed through the video which is basically a click-bait because he doesn't reveal anything.
I'd like to make 2 points: 1. who really cares what an out of shape multi-millionaire hypocrite whose life revolves around private planes and yachts yet claims he wants to save the planet does?
2. Some boys (because with that mindset they're not really men) look up to DiCaprio because he changes the girls at 25, supposedly getting them while at their peak attractiveness. Well, it's not the getting, it's the keeping that counts. So that tells me that either him or the girls or both are low quality, that's why they can't remain together.
You missed CRPs point then that girls 20-25 is at their true core personality at that age, after that they start paying games and are playing roles to real in "the" guy... If you date over that the chance is real that the person you meet isn't really that person after she has reached her goal of getting knocked up, wifed up etc. So click bait? Nope.
 

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You missed CRPs point then that girls 20-25 is at their true core personality at that age, after that they start paying games and are playing roles to real in "the" guy... If you date over that the chance is real that the person you meet isn't really that person after she has reached her goal of getting knocked up, wifed up etc. So click bait? Nope.
Women are at their core personality all the time...whatever roles they play, it can't last more than the first couple of months...now if a guy is dumb enough to knock up a woman that fast in a relationship, then it's on him.
CRP is pushing 54, looks like sh*t and talks about never dating girls above 25yrs :lol: ... now if that's not parody, I don't know what is. If you had a 24yrs daughter, would you be comfortable with her dating that guy? I know I wouldn't, notwithstanding the 30yrs difference which is a bit too big for my liking, but the guy gives off a stench of toxicity and women hatred.
Look, I'm all for men dating and marrying younger women - I believe human evolution and biology points in that direction. But it's guys like DiCaprio and CRP that gives it a bad name.
Re click bait, I was referring to the video in OP.
 

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I don't like to discuss celebrity dating because a lot of it isn't relatable. There is one relatable point below.


Point 9:14....

“By the time girls reach 25, they’re looking for more — they’re looking to get married and settle down. That is not what Leo wants. He does not want a family and does not want to be around women who may press him for that.”

Do women become mostly interested in marrying and settling down at 25? I perceive there's some level of truth to this among never married and childess women around 25-27, but it's possible to date women 25+ who aren't looking for more.
I think it's more hind brain/lizard brain. I think at 25, women will behave in a way that demos he biology despite her feminist programming.

Leo doesn't do anything but hard next. Modern women are waiting till their forties and Sheppard cats.

I think it's likely 25+ a modern women aren't dating with purpose contrary to their biology. Biology is undefeated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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