“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Legitimate IOI?

G Rambo34

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met this girl yesterday who is in this group with me. she goes to this other school, its full of kids from other school. anyway yesterday the group decided to do a fundraising event. we talked yesterday and she sent me a message asking " do you think you're going to go to the event?" i think this is an indication of intrest. she brought it up. what do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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john paul

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She wondered if you were going to the fundraiser enough that she took time out of her life to ask you.


Yes theres intrest so do something productive with it
 

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Every attempt of contact is an IOI at some level.

Your overanalyzing.
 

Cry For Love

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you cant really judge it by a message. words dont mean anything as has been said countless times. body language, however, always reveals the truth.

however, the fact that she initiated contact with that message probably shows that she isnt overwhelmingly attracted to you because in that case she would be too afraid to contact you.
 

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Cry For Love said:
however, the fact that she initiated contact with that message probably shows that she isnt overwhelmingly attracted to you because in that case she would be too afraid to contact you.
haha never thought of it like that

ok, so maybe she isn't DIEING over you but she still is showing interests :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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john paul

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She sent it in a text message.

A very impersonal and nonthreatening way to contact someone. I wouldnt say just because she contacted you means she doesnt have a high interest
 
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