met this girl yesterday who is in this group with me. she goes to this other school, its full of kids from other school. anyway yesterday the group decided to do a fundraising event. we talked yesterday and she sent me a message asking " do you think you're going to go to the event?" i think this is an indication of intrest. she brought it up. what do you guys think?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Legitimate IOI?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
She wondered if you were going to the fundraiser enough that she took time out of her life to ask you.
Yes theres intrest so do something productive with it
Yes theres intrest so do something productive with it
Cry For Love
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you cant really judge it by a message. words dont mean anything as has been said countless times. body language, however, always reveals the truth.
however, the fact that she initiated contact with that message probably shows that she isnt overwhelmingly attracted to you because in that case she would be too afraid to contact you.
however, the fact that she initiated contact with that message probably shows that she isnt overwhelmingly attracted to you because in that case she would be too afraid to contact you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
She sent it in a text message.
A very impersonal and nonthreatening way to contact someone. I wouldnt say just because she contacted you means she doesnt have a high interest
A very impersonal and nonthreatening way to contact someone. I wouldnt say just because she contacted you means she doesnt have a high interest