met this girl yesterday who is in this group with me. she goes to this other school, its full of kids from other school. anyway yesterday the group decided to do a fundraising event. we talked yesterday and she sent me a message asking " do you think you're going to go to the event?" i think this is an indication of intrest. she brought it up. what do you guys think?
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Legitimate IOI?
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She wondered if you were going to the fundraiser enough that she took time out of her life to ask you.
Yes theres intrest so do something productive with it
Yes theres intrest so do something productive with it
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you cant really judge it by a message. words dont mean anything as has been said countless times. body language, however, always reveals the truth.
however, the fact that she initiated contact with that message probably shows that she isnt overwhelmingly attracted to you because in that case she would be too afraid to contact you.
however, the fact that she initiated contact with that message probably shows that she isnt overwhelmingly attracted to you because in that case she would be too afraid to contact you.
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She sent it in a text message.
A very impersonal and nonthreatening way to contact someone. I wouldnt say just because she contacted you means she doesnt have a high interest
A very impersonal and nonthreatening way to contact someone. I wouldnt say just because she contacted you means she doesnt have a high interest