"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Legitimate IOI?

G Rambo34

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met this girl yesterday who is in this group with me. she goes to this other school, its full of kids from other school. anyway yesterday the group decided to do a fundraising event. we talked yesterday and she sent me a message asking " do you think you're going to go to the event?" i think this is an indication of intrest. she brought it up. what do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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john paul

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She wondered if you were going to the fundraiser enough that she took time out of her life to ask you.


Yes theres intrest so do something productive with it
 

SinJester

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Every attempt of contact is an IOI at some level.

Your overanalyzing.
 

Cry For Love

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you cant really judge it by a message. words dont mean anything as has been said countless times. body language, however, always reveals the truth.

however, the fact that she initiated contact with that message probably shows that she isnt overwhelmingly attracted to you because in that case she would be too afraid to contact you.
 

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Cry For Love said:
however, the fact that she initiated contact with that message probably shows that she isnt overwhelmingly attracted to you because in that case she would be too afraid to contact you.
haha never thought of it like that

ok, so maybe she isn't DIEING over you but she still is showing interests :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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john paul

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She sent it in a text message.

A very impersonal and nonthreatening way to contact someone. I wouldnt say just because she contacted you means she doesnt have a high interest
 
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