"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Left tricep feels smaller and like mush

Joined
Jun 14, 2008
Messages
594
Reaction score
8
I've been hitting the gym the last 4 months or so. My right tricep has gotten much bigger, and feels hard to the touch.

But my left tricep feels smaller, and it's soft and feels mushy.

What the hell is going on?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
Keep training, everything starts to even out after you've been training a year or so with correct form.
 

search1ng

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
546
Reaction score
8
my left arm is smaller, not that noticeable but it still is. Urgh, and i do everything with what i believe to be correct form. Slow movements, slow down, fast up movement..argh
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Joined
Jun 14, 2008
Messages
594
Reaction score
8
But why does my left tricep feel like mush when I touch it? It's very soft. But my right tricep is hard like a rock?

Am I overtraining my left tricep? It doesn't seem to be growing.
 

Quagmire911

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2005
Messages
2,419
Reaction score
8
Location
UK
Vlad the Impaler said:
But why does my left tricep feel like mush when I touch it? It's very soft. But my right tricep is hard like a rock?

Am I overtraining my left tricep? It doesn't seem to be growing.
What is your weekly routine?

What are your numbers? Ie. what do you bench?
 
Joined
Jun 14, 2008
Messages
594
Reaction score
8
Quagmire911 said:
What is your weekly routine?

What are your numbers? Ie. what do you bench?

Well, my routine is pretty pathetic to be honest with you. I'm new to working out, and I go to the gym alone, so I've been avoiding the free weights. I've just been using the machines.

So one day I'll do triceps/chest...

I don't even know the name of the machines I use. For triceps I do the pull down cable machine, and then some dips.

Then I guess it's called the seated bench press? Where you sit down and push the weight. I'm up to 220 on that.

So I don't even know how much I can bench. I haven't messed with that yet. And I don't do cardio. How bad is that? I just lift weights.

But, I have been seeing good results. I'm a lot bigger than I was 3 months ago.

I need better diet and kick out the alcohol too.
 

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
I've injured myself once in three years of lifting and that was doing a pullup.

Don't avoid the free weights. They're simply not dangerous in comparison to a ton of other activities people. Soccer is a well known one that has far more injuries than free weights do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top