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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Left tricep feels smaller and like mush

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I've been hitting the gym the last 4 months or so. My right tricep has gotten much bigger, and feels hard to the touch.

But my left tricep feels smaller, and it's soft and feels mushy.

What the hell is going on?
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Keep training, everything starts to even out after you've been training a year or so with correct form.
 

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my left arm is smaller, not that noticeable but it still is. Urgh, and i do everything with what i believe to be correct form. Slow movements, slow down, fast up movement..argh
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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But why does my left tricep feel like mush when I touch it? It's very soft. But my right tricep is hard like a rock?

Am I overtraining my left tricep? It doesn't seem to be growing.
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
But why does my left tricep feel like mush when I touch it? It's very soft. But my right tricep is hard like a rock?

Am I overtraining my left tricep? It doesn't seem to be growing.
What is your weekly routine?

What are your numbers? Ie. what do you bench?
 
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Quagmire911 said:
What is your weekly routine?

What are your numbers? Ie. what do you bench?

Well, my routine is pretty pathetic to be honest with you. I'm new to working out, and I go to the gym alone, so I've been avoiding the free weights. I've just been using the machines.

So one day I'll do triceps/chest...

I don't even know the name of the machines I use. For triceps I do the pull down cable machine, and then some dips.

Then I guess it's called the seated bench press? Where you sit down and push the weight. I'm up to 220 on that.

So I don't even know how much I can bench. I haven't messed with that yet. And I don't do cardio. How bad is that? I just lift weights.

But, I have been seeing good results. I'm a lot bigger than I was 3 months ago.

I need better diet and kick out the alcohol too.
 

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I've injured myself once in three years of lifting and that was doing a pullup.

Don't avoid the free weights. They're simply not dangerous in comparison to a ton of other activities people. Soccer is a well known one that has far more injuries than free weights do.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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