“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Leaving Pvssy on the Table

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Hey guys. I was playing in my band at a bar the other day, and I met a chick who seemed pretty into me. I had a question about how to escalate it properly.

So I meet this really pretty brunette after my show. She was quite sexy, had a nice body, and was on a revealing dress. We start talking, and we hit it off. I flirt with her and touch, she passes all my compliance tests as well("Hey come over here with me to the bar." "Hey come outside with me and let's talk.")

Eventually I'm able to escalate to making out with her on the dance floor, which is good. She lets me rub my dyck all over her crotch and @ss while we dance, and she kisses me with a lot of tongue as well.

I then decide I need to pull this chick and go for the Bang. The problem is, I carpooled over with my band to the venue. Pulling her would be effortless if I had my car. So instead, I asked her "Did you drive here, how are you feeling? I'm a bit tired, come to the gas station with me to grab an iced coffee." I figured my next best bet was to get in her car, and bang her out in the back seat.

And she hit me with that "OMG, I'm sorry, I didn't drive over here. I'd love to. Things would be totally different if I drove." Then she proceeded to give me her number. I really think this could have been a Bang though, had I known how to lead it right.

We hung out and kissed a bit more after that. I think her interest level was pretty decent. But as the man, if I don't lead to the bang properly, I'm not gonna be getting any pvssy.

I've done enough NightGame to know how flaky these numbers are lmao. You really need to bang them that same night. Kisses are fine, but I want a Bang. I also found out in post that she had a boyfriend lmao. So there's a small victory at least, making out with a chick that has a BF.

So my question is, if I run into a situation like this where I don't have my car again, how can I go about still getting the Bang?

Should I just tell her "let's take a walk" then take her to a secluded area outside, behind a dumpster or something, bend her over and bang her? Lmao. Or even bang her in the bathroom, I think that's a thing lol.

Let me know what you guys think.
 
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Just take her somewhere out back and rail her...even if you get interrupted you just gave her a great experience and you showed her you are a man that goes for what you want and likely increased your chances of seeing her again.

Any women you meet out in a bar is a 50/50 shot at best of ever seeing her again...and you have no idea what her mindset or intentions are. She may have a BF she is mad at and wanting to get back at so if she meets the right guy she will allow him to rail her and then go back to her BF...or maybe all she wants is some random d!ck that night...or maybe she is into you in the moment but then real life gets in the way and she loses interest or it feels wrong or any number of other reasons women lose interest...
 

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Just take her somewhere out back and rail her...even if you get interrupted you just gave her a great experience and you showed her you are a man that goes for what you want and likely increased your chances of seeing her again.

Any women you meet out in a bar is a 50/50 shot at best of ever seeing her again...and you have no idea what her mindset or intentions are. She may have a BF she is mad at and wanting to get back at so if she meets the right guy she will allow him to rail her and then go back to her BF...or maybe all she wants is some random d!ck that night...or maybe she is into you in the moment but then real life gets in the way and she loses interest or it feels wrong or any number of other reasons women lose interest...
Yeah I'd pretty much agree with all of that. The last time I banged a woman in my car from NightGame, I just baby stepped it until eventually we were fvcking lol. Now I know how to do it without a car too... I wasn't sure if banging outside was a thing lol.

I will keep that in mind for next time whenever I meet a "yes" girl.

I'll text the number, but we all know how these NightGame numbers are. I'm keeping my expectations extremely low lol
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah I thought about that. Only issue is she was with her friends, and plus this was like an hour out of town for me. I didn't want to be stranded there without a car lol.

The logistics weren't the greatest here. Next time I'm gonna make my own logistics by just banging her outside lol.
 

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Obviously a good option.

Also who cares if you carpooled? If the woman wants it, a couple people crammed in a vehicle isn’t going to turn her off, unless she’s a prude; which she doesn’t sound like..
 

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Obviously a good option.

Also who cares if you carpooled? If the woman wants it, a couple people crammed in a vehicle isn’t going to turn her off, unless she’s a prude; which she doesn’t sound like..
Now that I reflect on it more, you're right that a taxi could've been a good option too. The main thing I was worried about is that she was out with her friends, and that I would be stranded an hour away from my house without a car. I was mostly worried about being stranded.

With her friends, I could've just told her to tell them that she was leaving.

It's sounding like if I'm in a situation like this with a "yes" girl, then I need to either just bang her out back, in the bathroom, or take a cab.
 
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Just take her somewhere out back and rail her...even if you get interrupted you just gave her a great experience and you showed her you are a man that goes for what you want and likely increased your chances of seeing her again.

Any women you meet out in a bar is a 50/50 shot at best of ever seeing her again...and you have no idea what her mindset or intentions are. She may have a BF she is mad at and wanting to get back at so if she meets the right guy she will allow him to rail her and then go back to her BF...or maybe all she wants is some random d!ck that night...or maybe she is into you in the moment but then real life gets in the way and she loses interest or it feels wrong or any number of other reasons women lose interest...
no more tongue kissin cause if she has a bf she probably sucks him on the regular shiii
 

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Hey guys. I was playing in my band at a bar the other day, and I met a chick who seemed pretty into me. I had a question about how to escalate it properly.

So I meet this really pretty brunette after my show. She was quite sexy, had a nice body, and was on a revealing dress. We start talking, and we hit it off. I flirt with her and touch, she passes all my compliance tests as well("Hey come over here with me to the bar." "Hey come outside with me and let's talk.")

Eventually I'm able to escalate to making out with her on the dance floor, which is good. She lets me rub my dyck all over her crotch and @ss while we dance, and she kisses me with a lot of tongue as well.

I then decide I need to pull this chick and go for the Bang. The problem is, I carpooled over with my band to the venue. Pulling her would be effortless if I had my car. So instead, I asked her "Did you drive here, how are you feeling? I'm a bit tired, come to the gas station with me to grab an iced coffee." I figured my next best bet was to get in her car, and bang her out in the back seat.

And she hit me with that "OMG, I'm sorry, I didn't drive over here. I'd love to. Things would be totally different if I drove." Then she proceeded to give me her number. I really think this could have been a Bang though, had I known how to lead it right.

We hung out and kissed a bit more after that. I think her interest level was pretty decent. But as the man, if I don't lead to the bang properly, I'm not gonna be getting any pvssy.

I've done enough NightGame to know how flaky these numbers are lmao. You really need to bang them that same night. Kisses are fine, but I want a Bang. I also found out in post that she had a boyfriend lmao. So there's a small victory at least, making out with a chick that has a BF.

So my question is, if I run into a situation like this where I don't have my car again, how can I go about still getting the Bang?

Should I just tell her "let's take a walk" then take her to a secluded area outside, behind a dumpster or something, bend her over and bang her? Lmao. Or even bang her in the bathroom, I think that's a thing lol.

Let me know what you guys think.
You do know what condoms are, don't you? I have done this just once in my life time.
 

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So what happened with the number?

Don't you have some hookups with the venue for afterpartys and stuff? Befriend the Bartenders and they can help with logistics.
 

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I've booked a last minute room in a Hampton Inn before, lol.
Ha ha, I've done this before. Was on a first date and we're making out 15 minutes after meeting and we both drove over a half hour to the meet location, so had nowhere close to go. Pull out my phone and found a hotel 5 minutes away. Always have logistics figured out.
 

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Hey guys. I was playing in my band at a bar the other day, and I met a chick who seemed pretty into me. I had a question about how to escalate it properly.

So I meet this really pretty brunette after my show. She was quite sexy, had a nice body, and was on a revealing dress. We start talking, and we hit it off. I flirt with her and touch, she passes all my compliance tests as well("Hey come over here with me to the bar." "Hey come outside with me and let's talk.")

Eventually I'm able to escalate to making out with her on the dance floor, which is good. She lets me rub my dyck all over her crotch and @ss while we dance, and she kisses me with a lot of tongue as well.

I then decide I need to pull this chick and go for the Bang. The problem is, I carpooled over with my band to the venue. Pulling her would be effortless if I had my car. So instead, I asked her "Did you drive here, how are you feeling? I'm a bit tired, come to the gas station with me to grab an iced coffee." I figured my next best bet was to get in her car, and bang her out in the back seat.

And she hit me with that "OMG, I'm sorry, I didn't drive over here. I'd love to. Things would be totally different if I drove." Then she proceeded to give me her number. I really think this could have been a Bang though, had I known how to lead it right.

We hung out and kissed a bit more after that. I think her interest level was pretty decent. But as the man, if I don't lead to the bang properly, I'm not gonna be getting any pvssy.

I've done enough NightGame to know how flaky these numbers are lmao. You really need to bang them that same night. Kisses are fine, but I want a Bang. I also found out in post that she had a boyfriend lmao. So there's a small victory at least, making out with a chick that has a BF.

So my question is, if I run into a situation like this where I don't have my car again, how can I go about still getting the Bang?

Should I just tell her "let's take a walk" then take her to a secluded area outside, behind a dumpster or something, bend her over and bang her? Lmao. Or even bang her in the bathroom, I think that's a thing lol.

Let me know what you guys think.
Taxi, walk, Uber, Lyft, alley, bathroom, etc. Need to be creative and spontaneous. Also, depends on the age.
 

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Taxi, walk, Uber, Lyft, alley, bathroom, etc. Need to be creative and spontaneous. Also, depends on the age.
I agree that I could be more creative and spontaneous. That's the kind of savagery I'll need to succeed at this NightGame.

Have you ever done an alley pull or a bathroom pull Rick? I remember hearing about that on the old RSD videos. Any experience with fvcking girls this way or any tips?

I ask because I prefer to bang girls I meet at clubs the same night. I hate playing the phone game lol.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So what happened with the number?

Don't you have some hookups with the venue for afterpartys and stuff? Befriend the Bartenders and they can help with logistics.
I got her number. I'm texting it and her interest seems ok. I prefer to bang the night of whenever possible.

This was out of town. My first time meeting these bartenders and I carpooled over lol
 

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Since you asked, I think your standards are too low. Have some self-respect. You wanna lead some drunk club chick into a dark alley, and bang her behind a dumpster? You gonna complain when she claims you raped her, the next day, because she wakes re-inhibited and humiliated. How many years in prison is "not leaving pusssy on the table" worth to you?
Well when you put it like that... What do you think of those old "bathroom pull" club videos or whatever? I'm pretty sure that's a thing lol.
 

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I agree that I could be more creative and spontaneous. That's the kind of savagery I'll need to succeed at this NightGame.

Have you ever done an alley pull or a bathroom pull Rick? I remember hearing about that on the old RSD videos. Any experience with fvcking girls this way or any tips?

I ask because I prefer to bang girls I meet at clubs the same night. I hate playing the phone game lol.
I've used dressing rooms at stores, cars, bathrooms and the woods. Got some head at the club when I was in my teens though. With cameras now, one has to be careful. Make sure there's a lock on the door.
 

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I've used dressing rooms at stores, cars, bathrooms and the woods. Got some head at the club when I was in my teens though. With cameras now, one has to be careful. Make sure there's a lock on the door.
Awesome, I'm gonna do that next time.

I'm assuming you just isolated your girls, and then escalated by baby stepping it? As in you isolated her, touched her, kissed her, had her suck your d!CK, and then eventually banged her.
 
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