pyros
Master Don Juan
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I went to watch a show with this female friend of mine who is 23. We were getting to the place and she was "leading us" saying where to turn, which street to take, etc.. We argued a bit about which way was faster, but ok.
She wanted to sit really close to the stage, I didn't mind, but I did not have the urge to sit that close, so we sat where she wanted.
When it finished, we went to grab a bite. We were walking down the street and she suggested another route cause it was a "shortcut", I declined. After a few minutes she suggested another "shortcut", started to complain so I agreed.
Then we saw some restaurant and I suggested to sit there but she said she did not like that type of food, so we kept walking. In the end we agreed to sit in another place that we both liked, after she rejected a few more options...
Later on, when we had to go home, I was not totally sure which way to take so she suggested one, I checked it on my phone and I said that we should take a different one. She complained and insisted that she was right. I started to get nervous cause I was not sure. Anyway, I said: "we're going this way", she complained again but she followed me.
In the end I confused some street with another one, but we got to my car anyway.
On the way back, she had to question if we were going the right route eventhough I was damn sure cause I go that way everyday...
So, my question is, should I lead all the time? In this case I got annoyed because she wanted to lead us all the time. Other women just follow my lead and do not complain.
I have to point that she is just my friend, no plate, no sex, just friendship.
P.S.
I think I am too flexible, you know? cause I do not really care were to sit, or if we take this street or the other one which takes us 30 seconds less.
She wanted to sit really close to the stage, I didn't mind, but I did not have the urge to sit that close, so we sat where she wanted.
When it finished, we went to grab a bite. We were walking down the street and she suggested another route cause it was a "shortcut", I declined. After a few minutes she suggested another "shortcut", started to complain so I agreed.
Then we saw some restaurant and I suggested to sit there but she said she did not like that type of food, so we kept walking. In the end we agreed to sit in another place that we both liked, after she rejected a few more options...
Later on, when we had to go home, I was not totally sure which way to take so she suggested one, I checked it on my phone and I said that we should take a different one. She complained and insisted that she was right. I started to get nervous cause I was not sure. Anyway, I said: "we're going this way", she complained again but she followed me.
In the end I confused some street with another one, but we got to my car anyway.
On the way back, she had to question if we were going the right route eventhough I was damn sure cause I go that way everyday...
So, my question is, should I lead all the time? In this case I got annoyed because she wanted to lead us all the time. Other women just follow my lead and do not complain.
I have to point that she is just my friend, no plate, no sex, just friendship.
P.S.
I think I am too flexible, you know? cause I do not really care were to sit, or if we take this street or the other one which takes us 30 seconds less.
