"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Thats true but i'm asking about attracting relationships by thinking about it and believing its coming. I wouldn't call it nonsense because the evidence is all around with people who are lucky and unlucky (you make your own luck).TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
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Master Don Juan
Answers said:
Yes, defintiely tangible results already.
Primarily the circle of friends and people around me.
New people, and old ones coming up to me with business propositions.
Second, the introduction of new positive people in my life.
Second, the increased financial abundance, and material abundance in my life.
I'm no millionaire, but I'm seeing things in my daily life happen right before my eyes.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Why would she be with you?
If you have nothing in common, in that you have no similar vibration, then NO, you won't ever have a date with Jessica Alba. becaue you are not in the same vibrational resonance.
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You can get a nice woman.Answers said:
The woman ou will eventually get will be the one you are in vibrational resonance with. You have to be at the same level emotionally.
You have to be ready to receive her. And she will manifest for you.
But you cannot have any doubts.
those doubts, will hold you back.
Think about the woman you want. Now think, what characteristics do you have in common with her.
If you are on the same frequency, she will appear.
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So what about if you want a ferrai or whatever? What do I have in common with that? Do we have a similar vibration? When I read the the thing about it they said ANYTHING you want. These things always come up with with stupid excuses like you gave me.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Why can't you have a Ferrari?
Oh, as for "stupid excuses", I can say the same exact thing about you,
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
If it's something that interests you, learn more about it. The Secret is just the introduction... but it's a good one though.
It's SUPER important to be in a positive mindset though. So as you use the LOA, be wary of getting sucked into the "all women are trash, there's no such thing as love" threads that are all over the place here. They serve a purpose, but the more I learn, the more I realize that whatever I think is what happens. So if you think all women are evil, you are going to meet evil women and your suspicions will be confirmed. If you believe you can meet a great girl, then you will meet great girls and your hopes will be confirmed.
Basically it's up to you.
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:yes:
You will get a girl by going out and getting her, not by sitting on your ass and thinking about it.
Don't belive me? Go watch some porn, what are you doing? Thinking positive about sex. Are you gonna get it now? Nope.
Also I don't see porn as thinking postive, even though it's nice to look, you're essentially saying to yourself that you don't believe you can have the real thing so you'll settle for a substitute.
But, whatever. Interceptor knows what's up. Answers keep at it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.