"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anybody believe in the universal law of attraction and have anybody got good results just by changing their thoughts?

I'm just started the process so I'll report any positive results!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thinking positively will of course improve you're life as you will be alot more happier, Have more chance of achiveing things cause if you get knocked back in any area of life you won't give up so easily so therefore will create more chances for you're self to achive things. It will also make you more attractive to people cause nobody likes hanging around with someone whos always negative and the list goes on and on. All of this is just plain common sense and has nothing to do with the earth or whatever nosense the Law Of Attraction tells you. I fully belive in positive thinking and the major improvement it will make to you're life but its all happening in you're head, not some magnet drawing in positive energy or some sh!t like they'd be saying.
 

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TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
Thinking positively will of course improve you're life as you will be alot more happier, Have more chance of achiveing things cause if you get knocked back in any area of life you won't give up so easily so therefore will create more chances for you're self to achive things. It will also make you more attractive to people cause nobody likes hanging around with someone whos always negative and the list goes on and on. All of this is just plain common sense and has nothing to do with the earth or whatever nosense the Law Of Attraction tells you.
Thats true but i'm asking about attracting relationships by thinking about it and believing its coming. I wouldn't call it nonsense because the evidence is all around with people who are lucky and unlucky (you make your own luck).
 

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Anybody believe in the universal law of attraction and have anybody got good results just by changing their thoughts?

I'm just started the process so I'll report any positive results!

Yes, defintiely tangible results already.

Primarily the circle of friends and people around me.
New people, and old ones coming up to me with business propositions.
Second, the introduction of new positive people in my life.
Second, the increased financial abundance, and material abundance in my life.

I'm no millionaire, but I'm seeing things in my daily life happen right before my eyes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah well im not sure you could ever fully belive that. I read up on this stuff awhile back and it says you have to fully belive in the stuff you're asking for and then act like you have it and wait for it to come to you in some way. I mean if I ask for a date with Jessica Alba I think theres bound to be a little doubt in the back of mind that its gonna come true. As I said I fully belive in positive thinking and all that but asking the moon or whatever for a date with a hot chick and then fully beliveing it and acting like its gonna happen and then ''POOF'' some thing pops up that gives you this I don't belive. It's just stupid.
 

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Interceptor said:
Yes, defintiely tangible results already.

Primarily the circle of friends and people around me.
New people, and old ones coming up to me with business propositions.
Second, the introduction of new positive people in my life.
Second, the increased financial abundance, and material abundance in my life.

I'm no millionaire, but I'm seeing things in my daily life happen right before my eyes.
Thats good to hear! Hope it brings me a nice woman soon!
 

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What do you and Jessica ALba have in common?

Why would she be with you?

If you have nothing in common, in that you have no similar vibration, then NO, you won't ever have a date with Jessica Alba. becaue you are not in the same vibrational resonance.
 

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Thats good to hear! Hope it brings me a nice woman soon!
You can get a nice woman.

The woman ou will eventually get will be the one you are in vibrational resonance with. You have to be at the same level emotionally.

You have to be ready to receive her. And she will manifest for you.

But you cannot have any doubts.
those doubts, will hold you back.

Think about the woman you want. Now think, what characteristics do you have in common with her.

If you are on the same frequency, she will appear.
 
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What do you and Jessica ALba have in common?

Why would she be with you?

If you have nothing in common, in that you have no similar vibration, then NO, you won't ever have a date with Jessica Alba. becaue you are not in the same vibrational resonance.

So what about if you want a ferrai or whatever? What do I have in common with that? Do we have a similar vibration? When I read the the thing about it they said ANYTHING you want. These things always come up with with stupid excuses like you gave me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Interceptor said:
You can get a nice woman.

The woman ou will eventually get will be the one you are in vibrational resonance with. You have to be at the same level emotionally.

You have to be ready to receive her. And she will manifest for you.

But you cannot have any doubts.
those doubts, will hold you back.

Think about the woman you want. Now think, what characteristics do you have in common with her.

If you are on the same frequency, she will appear.
I'll do my best to attract her!! I'll think up something special too!!

In the few weeks I've been learning to use the law of attraction I have been attracted to this forum to sharpen my pick up skills!
 

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LOL.
Why can't you have a Ferrari?

Oh, as for "stupid excuses", I can say the same exact thing about you,
 

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TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
So what about if you want a ferrai or whatever? What do I have in common with that? Do we have a similar vibration? When I read the the thing about it they said ANYTHING you want. These things always come up with with stupid excuses like you gave me.
Just keep trying. You don't believe you can attract things so you won't. I'm not even 100% sure I believe I can attract things but I'm trying and starting to believe more and more.
 
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Cause i don't got the money. Im not trying to be smart or nothing but im just saying I can't see how you can FULLY belive its gonna happen. There has to be the smallest little doubt in the back of you're head that it's not going to happen. You could only ever fully belive it if you tryed it and it worked for you but according to the rules of it you'll never get what you want unless you fully belive it's gonna happen.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Answers, the answer is yes, and I agree with Interceptor.

If it's something that interests you, learn more about it. The Secret is just the introduction... but it's a good one though.

It's SUPER important to be in a positive mindset though. So as you use the LOA, be wary of getting sucked into the "all women are trash, there's no such thing as love" threads that are all over the place here. They serve a purpose, but the more I learn, the more I realize that whatever I think is what happens. So if you think all women are evil, you are going to meet evil women and your suspicions will be confirmed. If you believe you can meet a great girl, then you will meet great girls and your hopes will be confirmed.

Basically it's up to you.
 

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So if you think all women are evil, you are going to meet evil women and your suspicions will be confirmed. If you believe you can meet a great girl, then you will meet great girls and your hopes will be confirmed
:yes:
 

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Stop with this magical bullsh!t.

You will get a girl by going out and getting her, not by sitting on your ass and thinking about it.

Don't belive me? Go watch some porn, what are you doing? Thinking positive about sex. Are you gonna get it now? Nope.
 

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Actually, you'd be amazed at the things that can happen while you sit on your ass.

Also I don't see porn as thinking postive, even though it's nice to look, you're essentially saying to yourself that you don't believe you can have the real thing so you'll settle for a substitute.

But, whatever. Interceptor knows what's up. Answers keep at it. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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