You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thats true but i'm asking about attracting relationships by thinking about it and believing its coming. I wouldn't call it nonsense because the evidence is all around with people who are lucky and unlucky (you make your own luck).TonyWongButOhSoRite said:Thinking positively will of course improve you're life as you will be alot more happier, Have more chance of achiveing things cause if you get knocked back in any area of life you won't give up so easily so therefore will create more chances for you're self to achive things. It will also make you more attractive to people cause nobody likes hanging around with someone whos always negative and the list goes on and on. All of this is just plain common sense and has nothing to do with the earth or whatever nosense the Law Of Attraction tells you.
Answers said:Anybody believe in the universal law of attraction and have anybody got good results just by changing their thoughts?
I'm just started the process so I'll report any positive results!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thats good to hear! Hope it brings me a nice woman soon!Interceptor said:Yes, defintiely tangible results already.
Primarily the circle of friends and people around me.
New people, and old ones coming up to me with business propositions.
Second, the introduction of new positive people in my life.
Second, the increased financial abundance, and material abundance in my life.
I'm no millionaire, but I'm seeing things in my daily life happen right before my eyes.
You can get a nice woman.Answers said:Thats good to hear! Hope it brings me a nice woman soon!
Interceptor said:What do you and Jessica ALba have in common?
Why would she be with you?
If you have nothing in common, in that you have no similar vibration, then NO, you won't ever have a date with Jessica Alba. becaue you are not in the same vibrational resonance.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'll do my best to attract her!! I'll think up something special too!!Interceptor said:You can get a nice woman.
The woman ou will eventually get will be the one you are in vibrational resonance with. You have to be at the same level emotionally.
You have to be ready to receive her. And she will manifest for you.
But you cannot have any doubts.
those doubts, will hold you back.
Think about the woman you want. Now think, what characteristics do you have in common with her.
If you are on the same frequency, she will appear.
Just keep trying. You don't believe you can attract things so you won't. I'm not even 100% sure I believe I can attract things but I'm trying and starting to believe more and more.TonyWongButOhSoRite said:So what about if you want a ferrai or whatever? What do I have in common with that? Do we have a similar vibration? When I read the the thing about it they said ANYTHING you want. These things always come up with with stupid excuses like you gave me.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
:yes:So if you think all women are evil, you are going to meet evil women and your suspicions will be confirmed. If you believe you can meet a great girl, then you will meet great girls and your hopes will be confirmed
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.