"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TonyWongButOhSoRite
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Thats true but i'm asking about attracting relationships by thinking about it and believing its coming. I wouldn't call it nonsense because the evidence is all around with people who are lucky and unlucky (you make your own luck).TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
Interceptor
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Answers said:
Yes, defintiely tangible results already.
Primarily the circle of friends and people around me.
New people, and old ones coming up to me with business propositions.
Second, the introduction of new positive people in my life.
Second, the increased financial abundance, and material abundance in my life.
I'm no millionaire, but I'm seeing things in my daily life happen right before my eyes.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Why would she be with you?
If you have nothing in common, in that you have no similar vibration, then NO, you won't ever have a date with Jessica Alba. becaue you are not in the same vibrational resonance.
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You can get a nice woman.Answers said:
The woman ou will eventually get will be the one you are in vibrational resonance with. You have to be at the same level emotionally.
You have to be ready to receive her. And she will manifest for you.
But you cannot have any doubts.
those doubts, will hold you back.
Think about the woman you want. Now think, what characteristics do you have in common with her.
If you are on the same frequency, she will appear.
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So what about if you want a ferrai or whatever? What do I have in common with that? Do we have a similar vibration? When I read the the thing about it they said ANYTHING you want. These things always come up with with stupid excuses like you gave me.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Why can't you have a Ferrari?
Oh, as for "stupid excuses", I can say the same exact thing about you,
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Master Don Juan
If it's something that interests you, learn more about it. The Secret is just the introduction... but it's a good one though.
It's SUPER important to be in a positive mindset though. So as you use the LOA, be wary of getting sucked into the "all women are trash, there's no such thing as love" threads that are all over the place here. They serve a purpose, but the more I learn, the more I realize that whatever I think is what happens. So if you think all women are evil, you are going to meet evil women and your suspicions will be confirmed. If you believe you can meet a great girl, then you will meet great girls and your hopes will be confirmed.
Basically it's up to you.
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:yes:
You will get a girl by going out and getting her, not by sitting on your ass and thinking about it.
Don't belive me? Go watch some porn, what are you doing? Thinking positive about sex. Are you gonna get it now? Nope.
Also I don't see porn as thinking postive, even though it's nice to look, you're essentially saying to yourself that you don't believe you can have the real thing so you'll settle for a substitute.
But, whatever. Interceptor knows what's up. Answers keep at it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.