"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Last chance to get this girl. Need help!

mattrts

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So there's this girl I've had a mild on and off thing going on with for while now but I've never managed to close. We dated shortly almost 4 years ago, were pretty good friends for a while after the break up and have gone on a couple of widely spread out dates since. I moved out of town last year for school, but I'm headed back for a day and we have plans for dinner. Thing is, she's moving out of the country permanently next week so this will (most likely) be the last time I ever see her. Literally. So I want/need this one last date to lead to me banging her once and for all. Give me any and all tips you can. Date ideas, what to dress. Anything to help my chances.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pyros

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if in all this time you've not banged her, what does it make you think you can do it now....?
 

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pyros said:
if in all this time you've not banged her, what does it make you think you can do it now....?
I've never made it my expressed purpose before. Always got caught up in feelings instead.
 

VladPatton

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No can do, homie. You're deep within the jungles of the Friend Zone. Abort mission, and look for someone else. You should of been bored of banging her 2 years ago, not trying to do it for 4 years.

Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.
 
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