So there's this girl I've had a mild on and off thing going on with for while now but I've never managed to close. We dated shortly almost 4 years ago, were pretty good friends for a while after the break up and have gone on a couple of widely spread out dates since. I moved out of town last year for school, but I'm headed back for a day and we have plans for dinner. Thing is, she's moving out of the country permanently next week so this will (most likely) be the last time I ever see her. Literally. So I want/need this one last date to lead to me banging her once and for all. Give me any and all tips you can. Date ideas, what to dress. Anything to help my chances.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Last chance to get this girl. Need help!
- Thread starter mattrts
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
No can do, homie. You're deep within the jungles of the Friend Zone. Abort mission, and look for someone else. You should of been bored of banging her 2 years ago, not trying to do it for 4 years.
Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.
Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.