So there's this girl I've had a mild on and off thing going on with for while now but I've never managed to close. We dated shortly almost 4 years ago, were pretty good friends for a while after the break up and have gone on a couple of widely spread out dates since. I moved out of town last year for school, but I'm headed back for a day and we have plans for dinner. Thing is, she's moving out of the country permanently next week so this will (most likely) be the last time I ever see her. Literally. So I want/need this one last date to lead to me banging her once and for all. Give me any and all tips you can. Date ideas, what to dress. Anything to help my chances.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Last chance to get this girl. Need help!
- Thread starter mattrts
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
No can do, homie. You're deep within the jungles of the Friend Zone. Abort mission, and look for someone else. You should of been bored of banging her 2 years ago, not trying to do it for 4 years.
Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.
Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.