So there's this girl I've had a mild on and off thing going on with for while now but I've never managed to close. We dated shortly almost 4 years ago, were pretty good friends for a while after the break up and have gone on a couple of widely spread out dates since. I moved out of town last year for school, but I'm headed back for a day and we have plans for dinner. Thing is, she's moving out of the country permanently next week so this will (most likely) be the last time I ever see her. Literally. So I want/need this one last date to lead to me banging her once and for all. Give me any and all tips you can. Date ideas, what to dress. Anything to help my chances.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Last chance to get this girl. Need help!
- Thread starter mattrts
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
No can do, homie. You're deep within the jungles of the Friend Zone. Abort mission, and look for someone else. You should of been bored of banging her 2 years ago, not trying to do it for 4 years.
Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.
Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.