So there's this girl I've had a mild on and off thing going on with for while now but I've never managed to close. We dated shortly almost 4 years ago, were pretty good friends for a while after the break up and have gone on a couple of widely spread out dates since. I moved out of town last year for school, but I'm headed back for a day and we have plans for dinner. Thing is, she's moving out of the country permanently next week so this will (most likely) be the last time I ever see her. Literally. So I want/need this one last date to lead to me banging her once and for all. Give me any and all tips you can. Date ideas, what to dress. Anything to help my chances.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Last chance to get this girl. Need help!
- Thread starter mattrts
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
No can do, homie. You're deep within the jungles of the Friend Zone. Abort mission, and look for someone else. You should of been bored of banging her 2 years ago, not trying to do it for 4 years.
Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.
Say goodbye, wish her well and save your dignity, man.