Lacking Chemistry w/ Hottie

[pipeman84]

Most of you all would move mountains to be with such a woman.

C'mon man, that's really simpy. Move mountains to be with a woman based off a b&w photo?

 

[Gamisch]

C'mon man, that's really simpy. Move mountains to be with a woman based off a b&w photo?

You know damn well what I mean. She is 31 and good looking. If she has a normal job or is somewhat cool , then that's more than enough for most men to indeed move mountains. In reality that is..

Believe me her inbox is full.

 

[Slowhandluke]

You know damn well what I mean. She is 31 and good looking. If she has a normal job or is somewhat cool , then that's more than enough for most men to indeed move mountains. In reality that is..

Believe me her inbox is full.

Basically you are implying that she's an average girl without any hang-ups with a very attractive body. Of course guys would move mountains to be with her.. Now lets say she's a single mom (less guys would want to be with her)... now lets say she has bpd (even less guys)... how about a drug addition (less...)... etc.. etc..

How many 31 year olds are there, that are good looking, and don't have that type of baggage? Most that don't are already married. The majority of 31 year olds with that good of a body and an average or normal personality are already taken. What you are basically saying is that most men would move mountains for a UNICORN.... which makes sense and I don't judge any man for putting their hat in the ring to date that UNICORN...

 

[Gamisch]

I agree that the chance to find a good partner will decrease over time.

I like to think that we on SS are another breed. We would probably scan such a woman for red flags and find them eventually. That alone is a complete different angle than most gullible naive and inexperienced men still have. That's still plenty ,plenty of men. Enough for 31 y.o hot woman to have many orbiters ect.

We both were, if I'm being honest. Truth be told, she seems to lack personality. And if you see the pics I posted above, you'll probably gather that she never needed to develop one.

I like most women in those pictures. But then again iam quite the horndog hehe. Looks tasty . But oke, 10 years wasted on being some side thing from a dealer. And then waste the last period of her prime on feckkng up her body even more when it needs to be taken care of the most...

Modern women in a nutshell.

Idk bro, I would throw all respect and caution out of the window and treat her accordingly.

 

[pipeman84]

You know damn well what I mean. She is 31 and good looking. If she has a normal job or is somewhat cool , then that's more than enough for most men to indeed move mountains. In reality that is..

Believe me her inbox is full.

She has veiny arms, and that look on her face that conveys she's a sad woman and/or with issues. And she's 31 and on Bumble...why the heck would I or any self respecting guy move mountains for her, as if she were my wife and mother of my children?
Depending on her other pictures, the only thing I'd move is my ass to the local park to meet her and see what she's about.

 

[Gamisch]

She has veiny arms, and that look on her face that conveys she's a sad woman and/or with issues. And she's 31 and on Bumble...why the heck would I or any self respecting guy move mountains for her, as if she were my wife and mother of my children?
Depending on her other pictures, the only thing I'd move is my ass to the local park to meet her and see what she's about.

I didnt pick a woman to necessarily impress you with my excellent taste for slvts. Wouldn't be fair neither, I just picked a average random woman as an example.

I salute you for seeing through the bs. Takes a trained eye. Yet I stand by my point, that 80 % of men in this incel -rich era would have only two demands with such a woman; not too much of a catfish , and somewhat decent behaviour.

By the way, dont you think she was already "crazy" 6 years ago? Or maybe even 8 years ago ? Ofcourse she was.

 

[Slowhandluke]

Yet I stand by my point, that 80 % of men in this incel -rich era would have only two demands with such a woman; not too much of a catfish , and somewhat decent behaviour.

For this particular woman, if so many men are after her (80% of the male population apparently), why is she still single on bumble? There is obviously something wrong with her or else she wouldn't be single (unless she's a unicorn.. which is very rare indeed).

I do find her attractive, but like most older men, we don't think with our small heads as much (been there, done that -- literally hahahahaha). Maybe younger guys will be willing to wife her, but she's just too full of yourself? Who knows? Out of all the men that she met, why did they not wife her.. why did she not husband them... What is wrong? Yes, this is the first red flag....

 

[jaymbrs]

For this particular woman, if so many men are after her (80% of the male population apparently), why is she still single on bumble? There is obviously something wrong with her or else she wouldn't be single (unless she's a unicorn.. which is very rare indeed).

I do find her attractive, but like most older men, we don't think with our small heads as much (been there, done that -- literally hahahahaha). Maybe younger guys will be willing to wife her, but she's just too full of yourself? Who knows? Out of all the men that she met, why did they not wife her.. why did she not husband them... What is wrong? Yes, this is the first red flag....

ALL women have red flags. But I'm of the mindset that not all red flags are equal and not everyone is okay with the same red flags as others would be. Some red flags that have affected her in the past could be something she's worked on to correct. Who knows. My point is, I'm not going to let the fact she's not in her 20s be the only reason I would walk away from her.

 

[Gamisch]

For this particular woman, if so many men are after her (80% of the male population apparently), why is she still single on bumble? There is obviously something wrong with her or else she wouldn't be single (unless she's a unicorn.. which is very rare indeed).

I do find her attractive, but like most older men, we don't think with our small heads as much (been there, done that -- literally hahahahaha). Maybe younger guys will be willing to wife her, but she's just too full of yourself? Who knows? Out of all the men that she met, why did they not wife her.. why did she not husband them... What is wrong? Yes, this is the first red flag....

Number don't lie. There's a difference between
- a bad woman
-a mediocre woman
-a good/ cool normie
- a hot woman
-a good and hot woman

And there are probably even more types. Men who never have women will settle for whatever God (or satan) sends on their paths.

I was one of them. After my LTR inc.child I met a hot HB8 brunette, bat shyte crazy. Her hotness and my longing for hot women prolonged a bad relationship.

Why is she stil on Bumble? Because she's single, and chases after the best man she can get. We know the dynamics. We know that she thinks she's a HB9 amd deserves a prime Brad , and we know she is probably a serial dater who is single for many many years. She doesn't want 80% of men. She is not on OLD to find random D, but to find top D.

It's the familiar eternal loop ,same ol' story with women in general. Tbh I wouldn't wrote her off immediately, she'll get a chance to prove me wrong. But unfortunately for her men like me already slept with plenty if women like her by now.

 

[Slowhandluke]

..... she is probably a serial dater who is single for many many years. She doesn't want 80% of men. She is not on OLD to find random D, but to find top D.

She's chasing the dragon.... She is shallow. Ultimately, she will lose her looks and then men will judge her the same way. They wouldn't even bat an eye at her. Women are given the gift of beauty when they are young to ensnare a man.

But unfortunately for her men like me already slept with plenty if women like her by now.

Yes, most older men have slept with attractive women before... we understand mother natures tricks... All attractive women will lose their looks sooner or later.. Be nice.. be feminine... and most guys will accept a women's lost looks. That is how most guys are wired.

 

[jaymbrs]

She's chasing the dragon.... She is shallow. Ultimately, she will lose her looks and then men will judge her the same way. They wouldn't even bat an eye at her. Women are given the gift of beauty when they are young to ensnare a man.



Yes, most older men have slept with attractive women before... we understand mother natures tricks... All attractive women will lose their looks sooner or later.. Be nice.. be feminine... and most guys will accept a women's lost looks. That is how most guys are wired.

The reality about women’s beauty is that they’re doing all types of things to extend it…and it’s working. The products being used and procedures being done are extending it by at least 10-15 years.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The reality about women’s beauty is that they’re doing all types of things to extend it…and it’s working. The products being used and procedures being done are extending it by at least 10-15 years.

Cougars. This girl will still probably be hot in 10-15 and by that time she'll generally be easier to deal with and to bed.

 

[SW15]

So what , we just throw away women older than 35? Because she's either a career feminazi or a Alpha widowed baby machine.

Yes, I know most guys here fancy women younger than 27, but is it realistic?

No, it isn't realistic to perpetually date women 18-26. When a man turns 35, he's likely unable to pull from the 18-26 category. The best 35-44 year old men are able to pull 18-26 year olds. This is a very small percentage of 35-44 year old men.

Around 45-50, it's more of sugar daddy type game to pull 18-26 year olds.

At age 40 and beyond, most men are relegated to 35+ women. Even a 5 year age gap is impressive but not unrealistic for a 40 year old man. If a man gets an age gap beyond 7-10 years after age 35, it has a lot to do with money. Even a 35-40 year old getting someone 7-10 years younger is often related to money/status.

To a 55 year old man, a 40 year old woman is exciting.

A 35 y.o woman without kids, who focused on her career is fine with me.

Most women need to have jobs now. Women who have never married and have no kids can't opt out of the labor force. Married women with children have the ability to choose if they want to become stay-at-home moms.

When considering 30 something childless women for relationships, it's relevant to consider how dedicated she is to her job. If a woman has a basic job that doesn't require much of a commitment beyond 40 hours and isn't too demanding, she's dateable. The women with demanding jobs aren't dateable.

Think about comparing a 35 year old dental hygienist to a 35 year old dentist. Which one is more likely to be a better girlfriend medium to long term? The dental hygienist is more likely to make a better girlfriend because she will have more classically feminine.

The downside of women with less demanding careers is that they get into LTRs and get off the market faster. Continuing with the example above, a lot of dental hygienists are partnered off by their mid to late 20s. A 35 year old dental hygienist who is available is more likely to be a single mom than a childless woman.

That advice is given by guys who likely have no children. As a guy with kids, I prefer women with kids. It makes them more relatable to me...a woman in their mid 30s with no kids is not relatable AND I would worry about how she would act around my kids.

This makes sense. I will not fault a man with kids for dating a woman with kids. In an extended relationship, longer term blending of families is a rough process. The happens regardless of the age of children and it even happens with older couples whose children are all 18+ and independent.

A 35-44 year old childless woman would have a difficult time relating to a similarly aged single dad's children. The only exposure that a 35-44 year old childless woman has had to children is as an aunt to the children of her siblings. As an aunt, this is usually not a regular experience. For some aunts, this is only 2-3 times a year for a few hours.

For me, as a childless man, I don't relate to the lifestyle of single moms. I have had some single mom co-workers over time. I have listened to stories from their lives. They are very unrelatable to me. As a late 30s guy, I can't relate to single women in their mid to late 30s who have children.

I love to "speak through images". . So what, most men on the forum would reject this woman? ( random 30+woman from Bumble). View attachment 9667

If she were childless, I would be interested in her. I agree that a lot of 32+ men would be interested.

I respect it when a man's policy is to dont date older than 25. It means he is pulling ppenty of poosy and can afford to reject women like this.

True

 

[SW15]

I won’t say which one it is but this is pretty much her old crew who all married off. Screams high maintenance.

Truth be told, she seems to lack personality. And if you see the pics I posted above, you'll probably gather that she never needed to develop one.

I looked at those pictures. They are attractive women. Most men would be interested in getting with most of those women.

I can see why you're still attracted.

I can also see why she doesn't have much of a personality. Her looks have carried her for the last ~20 years, since she was 16.

The reality about women’s beauty is that they’re doing all types of things to extend it…and it’s working. The products being used and procedures being done are extending it by at least 10-15 years.

Yes, this happens all the time. Look at those "Real Housewives" shows. The women who are cast on those shows are the types of women who use products to extend their good looking years. Women 35-54 typically watch "Real Housewives" type content.

 

[2Rocky]

You really need to push the envelope man....Get in to this OLD where you can take advantage of your differences...Keep it SPICY!

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[BackInTheGame78]

I get that,but it's a complete contradiction from the other common advice to avoid single mothers. So what , we just throw away women older than 35? Because she's either a career feminazi or a Alpha widowed baby machine.

Imo it's too black and white. Our new archetype named ROMAN will be even more limited if he would follow this advice. Yes, I know most guys here fancy women younger than 27, but is it realistic?

A 35 y.o woman without kids, who focused on her career is fine with me. But lately I view every relationship with a woman as a FWB type of thing. My expectations are say lower , and that gives me less headaches.

And that's fine. But that's why guys have so many problems dating is because women who are childless in their mid 30s are likely all some sort of whack-a-doodle mentally.