"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Labeled Biggest Flirt
- Thread starter Kourt
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
people have been seeing you [or this once particular journalist] having game. i dont know what else to say.
SnatchJP
Senior Don Juan
Maybe you can think of ways to use this new title to your advantage. You know, as a sort of running joke, like if you're late to class or if you're trying to make your way through a crowd you could yell "Scuse me! Pardon me! Flirt Master coming through! Make way! Scuse me!" etc. Or if someone accuses you of flirting, you can tip your cap and say "Just doing my duty maa'm." or if you're interested, "You know I might do more than flirt if you're good."
Now these are just my half-@ssed attemps at 1:00 AM. When you're wide awake, You'll be able to think of better ones.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
California Love
Master Don Juan
California Love
Master Don Juan
thx for correcting me
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by California Love
thx for correcting me
well, actually i dont think its that bad, i dont have a reputation as a clown, but as a flirt, it allows me to take liberties i otherwise would not get.