"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Labeled Biggest Flirt
- Thread starter Kourt
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
people have been seeing you [or this once particular journalist] having game. i dont know what else to say.
SnatchJP
Senior Don Juan
Maybe you can think of ways to use this new title to your advantage. You know, as a sort of running joke, like if you're late to class or if you're trying to make your way through a crowd you could yell "Scuse me! Pardon me! Flirt Master coming through! Make way! Scuse me!" etc. Or if someone accuses you of flirting, you can tip your cap and say "Just doing my duty maa'm." or if you're interested, "You know I might do more than flirt if you're good."
Now these are just my half-@ssed attemps at 1:00 AM. When you're wide awake, You'll be able to think of better ones.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
California Love
Master Don Juan
California Love
Master Don Juan
thx for correcting me
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by California Love
thx for correcting me
well, actually i dont think its that bad, i dont have a reputation as a clown, but as a flirt, it allows me to take liberties i otherwise would not get.