"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Labeled Biggest Flirt

Kourt

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Hey guys, so I just got labeled biggest flirt in a school newspaper, this a good thing or a bad thing? Just curious on how being labeled a 'flirt' would affect your game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bad... the girls u now come on to know that you do that with everyone else so they dont feel special
 

DJ Alejandro

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grifter's right but one thing about it is that you get NOTICED. you should worry when you DONT get noticed.

people have been seeing you [or this once particular journalist] having game. i dont know what else to say.
 

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it was a thing called Best of ____, where people voted for Most Athletic, Best Smile, Biggest Flirt, ect. . .

so it has its +s and -s
 

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You said it yourself, there are positives and negatives. Your flirting won't be taken as seriously, but because of that in a weird way, more girls will be more open to it. (They'll think it's normal and will just enjoy it). Also, it gets your name out there, that's usually a good thing.

Maybe you can think of ways to use this new title to your advantage. You know, as a sort of running joke, like if you're late to class or if you're trying to make your way through a crowd you could yell "Scuse me! Pardon me! Flirt Master coming through! Make way! Scuse me!" etc. Or if someone accuses you of flirting, you can tip your cap and say "Just doing my duty maa'm." or if you're interested, "You know I might do more than flirt if you're good."

Now these are just my half-@ssed attemps at 1:00 AM. When you're wide awake, You'll be able to think of better ones.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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depending on the size of your school, no one will really give a sh*t.
 

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California Love - only girls wont take you seriously
 

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lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by California Love
thx for correcting me ;)

well, actually i dont think its that bad, i dont have a reputation as a clown, but as a flirt, it allows me to take liberties i otherwise would not get.
 
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