"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Labeled Biggest Flirt

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Hey guys, so I just got labeled biggest flirt in a school newspaper, this a good thing or a bad thing? Just curious on how being labeled a 'flirt' would affect your game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bad... the girls u now come on to know that you do that with everyone else so they dont feel special
 

DJ Alejandro

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grifter's right but one thing about it is that you get NOTICED. you should worry when you DONT get noticed.

people have been seeing you [or this once particular journalist] having game. i dont know what else to say.
 

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it was a thing called Best of ____, where people voted for Most Athletic, Best Smile, Biggest Flirt, ect. . .

so it has its +s and -s
 

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You said it yourself, there are positives and negatives. Your flirting won't be taken as seriously, but because of that in a weird way, more girls will be more open to it. (They'll think it's normal and will just enjoy it). Also, it gets your name out there, that's usually a good thing.

Maybe you can think of ways to use this new title to your advantage. You know, as a sort of running joke, like if you're late to class or if you're trying to make your way through a crowd you could yell "Scuse me! Pardon me! Flirt Master coming through! Make way! Scuse me!" etc. Or if someone accuses you of flirting, you can tip your cap and say "Just doing my duty maa'm." or if you're interested, "You know I might do more than flirt if you're good."

Now these are just my half-@ssed attemps at 1:00 AM. When you're wide awake, You'll be able to think of better ones.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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depending on the size of your school, no one will really give a sh*t.
 

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California Love - only girls wont take you seriously
 

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lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by California Love
thx for correcting me ;)

well, actually i dont think its that bad, i dont have a reputation as a clown, but as a flirt, it allows me to take liberties i otherwise would not get.
 
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