"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
L-arginine
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
blind_one
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Drop them , seriously. Get tested for hormones. There might be something seriously wrong with them if your mood is constantly ****.
Check them, fix your diet and lift weights you will feel like a new born man.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Antidepressants can lower libido and cause ED... Make sure your not depressed because your not moving around. Excersize. It's possible you don't need the antidepressant meds and just need to take better care of your physical and mental health.
marmel75
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That being said, I'd get your T levels checked. Depression can be a sign of low T levels and ED is DEFINITELY a sign of low T levels.
Have them run a whole spectrum hormonal profile...
Estradiol, Progesterone, DHEA-S(make sure its DHEA-S and not DHEA), T total and T free, SHBG, and Thyroid.
Who Dares Win
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Agree 100%, I would add prolactine to be checked.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.