"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Krappy approach

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Went out with the mates tonight to shoot some pool. Next to our table a cutie was shooting pool with her walrus-ugly two girlfriends. She didn't look like an AW so I decided to approach her since none of my mates had confidense in it. After finishing my turn at our table I walk to theirs and start talking to the cute chick. I made small talk about girls night out etc...Then i asked her name and what college the goes to. I said I'll get back to her and went to finish the game with my mates. When I returned they were gone! Schit, i felt really bummed. Is there any way i could've sped up the approach and number closed despite of all the circumstances? It was awkward because i was breaking her away from her game and i was holding up my mates. I'd like to know in detail how you would've dealed with this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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talk to her ugly friends, theyre the ones dragging her away.
couldve invited her group to play against you and your friends also
 
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yeah, I woulda did close to the same, 'cept to punish my guy for bieng a coward I woulda prolly ended it with something like

To WB (walrus bunny) "Oh yeah, my guy says you can't beat us in a game of pool."

{icthing for attention, the WB would have took 'him' up on his offer, which in turn, gives you ample time for the HB rapport build-up/close etc.

I'm an A-hole so pardon me if this seems a bit wrong to do to a friend
 
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learn how to use a wingman (or two) and use a wingman next time. that wingman could've taken the grenade (one of the 2 other walrus chicks) and you just stand in the background waiting to attack the real target.

but yeah that was a approach albeit a crappy one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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