"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Krappy approach

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Went out with the mates tonight to shoot some pool. Next to our table a cutie was shooting pool with her walrus-ugly two girlfriends. She didn't look like an AW so I decided to approach her since none of my mates had confidense in it. After finishing my turn at our table I walk to theirs and start talking to the cute chick. I made small talk about girls night out etc...Then i asked her name and what college the goes to. I said I'll get back to her and went to finish the game with my mates. When I returned they were gone! Schit, i felt really bummed. Is there any way i could've sped up the approach and number closed despite of all the circumstances? It was awkward because i was breaking her away from her game and i was holding up my mates. I'd like to know in detail how you would've dealed with this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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manicmaximum

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talk to her ugly friends, theyre the ones dragging her away.
couldve invited her group to play against you and your friends also
 

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yeah, I woulda did close to the same, 'cept to punish my guy for bieng a coward I woulda prolly ended it with something like

To WB (walrus bunny) "Oh yeah, my guy says you can't beat us in a game of pool."

{icthing for attention, the WB would have took 'him' up on his offer, which in turn, gives you ample time for the HB rapport build-up/close etc.

I'm an A-hole so pardon me if this seems a bit wrong to do to a friend
 

DeathDealer

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learn how to use a wingman (or two) and use a wingman next time. that wingman could've taken the grenade (one of the 2 other walrus chicks) and you just stand in the background waiting to attack the real target.

but yeah that was a approach albeit a crappy one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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