"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Krappy approach

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Went out with the mates tonight to shoot some pool. Next to our table a cutie was shooting pool with her walrus-ugly two girlfriends. She didn't look like an AW so I decided to approach her since none of my mates had confidense in it. After finishing my turn at our table I walk to theirs and start talking to the cute chick. I made small talk about girls night out etc...Then i asked her name and what college the goes to. I said I'll get back to her and went to finish the game with my mates. When I returned they were gone! Schit, i felt really bummed. Is there any way i could've sped up the approach and number closed despite of all the circumstances? It was awkward because i was breaking her away from her game and i was holding up my mates. I'd like to know in detail how you would've dealed with this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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manicmaximum

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talk to her ugly friends, theyre the ones dragging her away.
couldve invited her group to play against you and your friends also
 

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yeah, I woulda did close to the same, 'cept to punish my guy for bieng a coward I woulda prolly ended it with something like

To WB (walrus bunny) "Oh yeah, my guy says you can't beat us in a game of pool."

{icthing for attention, the WB would have took 'him' up on his offer, which in turn, gives you ample time for the HB rapport build-up/close etc.

I'm an A-hole so pardon me if this seems a bit wrong to do to a friend
 

DeathDealer

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learn how to use a wingman (or two) and use a wingman next time. that wingman could've taken the grenade (one of the 2 other walrus chicks) and you just stand in the background waiting to attack the real target.

but yeah that was a approach albeit a crappy one.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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