Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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kiss closing a girl for the first time during school

BongDuy

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do you try and isolate her? if so, what do you say?

I tried to kiss a girl today, but i missed a chance three times. Im such a fool, but im also still learning.

the first time was when we were leaving, she was kissing my cheeks like crazy, and i was thinking to say " now kiss my lips " but for some reason i just got really nervous and totally chickened out.

2nd time was when i saw her leaving lunch, this one was kind of forced because i told my friend and he kept telling me to do it. I was about to give her a "surprise" i had told her through a text message earlier, but she had a mouthful of cookies and i just didn't find that appealing

Then when everyone was leaving school, i caught her in the hallway & I was gunna kiss close her, but she was surrounded by friends, both guys and girls. I was gunna try and isolate her but i just couldn't do it.

=( tips?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kraytkiller

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BongDuy said:
Does it matter if you kiss her in front of her friends? what about the "slut shield"?
Don't do that. Put your hands on her shoulders and pull her away like it's natural. Or something like that, whatever is your style.

Don't kiss her in front of her friends. She would maybe even reject you if you tried that... And it'd end up being embarrassing. Her friends would probably say something that would kill the moment, if there was one. Lol.

Also, if you go with the 'Physically pull her away' idea, don't chicken out. If she goes with you, chances are she knows whats up. Just go for it.
 
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