"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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do you try and isolate her? if so, what do you say?

I tried to kiss a girl today, but i missed a chance three times. Im such a fool, but im also still learning.

the first time was when we were leaving, she was kissing my cheeks like crazy, and i was thinking to say " now kiss my lips " but for some reason i just got really nervous and totally chickened out.

2nd time was when i saw her leaving lunch, this one was kind of forced because i told my friend and he kept telling me to do it. I was about to give her a "surprise" i had told her through a text message earlier, but she had a mouthful of cookies and i just didn't find that appealing

Then when everyone was leaving school, i caught her in the hallway & I was gunna kiss close her, but she was surrounded by friends, both guys and girls. I was gunna try and isolate her but i just couldn't do it.

=( tips?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BongDuy said:
Does it matter if you kiss her in front of her friends? what about the "slut shield"?
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Don't do that. Put your hands on her shoulders and pull her away like it's natural. Or something like that, whatever is your style.

Don't kiss her in front of her friends. She would maybe even reject you if you tried that... And it'd end up being embarrassing. Her friends would probably say something that would kill the moment, if there was one. Lol.

Also, if you go with the 'Physically pull her away' idea, don't chicken out. If she goes with you, chances are she knows whats up. Just go for it.
 
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