"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kiss closing a girl for the first time during school

BongDuy

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do you try and isolate her? if so, what do you say?

I tried to kiss a girl today, but i missed a chance three times. Im such a fool, but im also still learning.

the first time was when we were leaving, she was kissing my cheeks like crazy, and i was thinking to say " now kiss my lips " but for some reason i just got really nervous and totally chickened out.

2nd time was when i saw her leaving lunch, this one was kind of forced because i told my friend and he kept telling me to do it. I was about to give her a "surprise" i had told her through a text message earlier, but she had a mouthful of cookies and i just didn't find that appealing

Then when everyone was leaving school, i caught her in the hallway & I was gunna kiss close her, but she was surrounded by friends, both guys and girls. I was gunna try and isolate her but i just couldn't do it.

=( tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kraytkiller

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BongDuy said:
Does it matter if you kiss her in front of her friends? what about the "slut shield"?
Don't do that. Put your hands on her shoulders and pull her away like it's natural. Or something like that, whatever is your style.

Don't kiss her in front of her friends. She would maybe even reject you if you tried that... And it'd end up being embarrassing. Her friends would probably say something that would kill the moment, if there was one. Lol.

Also, if you go with the 'Physically pull her away' idea, don't chicken out. If she goes with you, chances are she knows whats up. Just go for it.
 
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