"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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do you try and isolate her? if so, what do you say?

I tried to kiss a girl today, but i missed a chance three times. Im such a fool, but im also still learning.

the first time was when we were leaving, she was kissing my cheeks like crazy, and i was thinking to say " now kiss my lips " but for some reason i just got really nervous and totally chickened out.

2nd time was when i saw her leaving lunch, this one was kind of forced because i told my friend and he kept telling me to do it. I was about to give her a "surprise" i had told her through a text message earlier, but she had a mouthful of cookies and i just didn't find that appealing

Then when everyone was leaving school, i caught her in the hallway & I was gunna kiss close her, but she was surrounded by friends, both guys and girls. I was gunna try and isolate her but i just couldn't do it.

=( tips?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BongDuy said:
Does it matter if you kiss her in front of her friends? what about the "slut shield"?
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Don't do that. Put your hands on her shoulders and pull her away like it's natural. Or something like that, whatever is your style.

Don't kiss her in front of her friends. She would maybe even reject you if you tried that... And it'd end up being embarrassing. Her friends would probably say something that would kill the moment, if there was one. Lol.

Also, if you go with the 'Physically pull her away' idea, don't chicken out. If she goes with you, chances are she knows whats up. Just go for it.
 
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