happypcrepair
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Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".
Do I still have any chance?
Do I still have any chance?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
chrisgoodrich25
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not in hell buddy..**** it though push your limits and her boundries...wont hut to try..you'll learn something..if anythinghappypcrepair said:
happypcrepair
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Today, I saw this girl again. I held her hand for 10 seconds and started to talk to her and she told me "why am I holding her hand?" I said because I like your hand.
Inputs pls.
Inputs pls.
BongDuy
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It doesn't seem like she is comfortable with you holding her at all. I think you could of said something like " idk your hand feels smooth" and then just change the subject.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hidden-Hand
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Hm. Strike One!...It shouldnt be about you having a chance with her, it should be about her having a chance with you. Your mindset about relationships and dating is wrong and backwards.happypcrepair said:
Hmmm...Strike Two! read this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043, move on and stop posting.
Poonani Maker
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Ask her if she's ever been kissed before. Then, lay one on her.
happypcrepair
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what if she says yes?
moneyisking
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really? dude I would be angry if she said that. Why? B/c she is rejecting THIS guy? oh, **** her b1tch as$ is missing out on some hot ****. I will probably tell her, "oh well, i guess you have a bad taste" and move on and end it. I hate stuck up b1tches
The chick i am with..I assume is real comfortable...we miss around from time to time..LOTS of kino. but then there is other times it's like she doesn't want to be around me...sits real far away ect ect.
i dont get her at ALL!
from what i have learned from here...is play of what she does and not what she says.....
i dont get her at ALL!
from what i have learned from here...is play of what she does and not what she says.....
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
happypcrepair
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I'm doing lots of kino on her and she seems to be comfortable. She doesn't let me kiss her though. Seems like she's never been kissed before.
You're missing out on building a strong rapport first.
Also, you need to make apply kino naturally, without her even suspecting that you're trying to touch her.
If you feel like there's a SENSE of URGENCY to touch, you're doing it WRONG.
There's never too late, or too early to apply kino.
You must first establish that verbal rapport, then go from there.
Also, you need to make apply kino naturally, without her even suspecting that you're trying to touch her.
If you feel like there's a SENSE of URGENCY to touch, you're doing it WRONG.
There's never too late, or too early to apply kino.
You must first establish that verbal rapport, then go from there.
happypcrepair
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i'm still able to kino her hard. ****in flat chested though. She still resist being kissed. Not sure why.