"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".

Do I still have any chance?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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happypcrepair said:
Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".

Do I still have any chance?
not in hell buddy..**** it though push your limits and her boundries...wont hut to try..you'll learn something..if anything
 

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Today, I saw this girl again. I held her hand for 10 seconds and started to talk to her and she told me "why am I holding her hand?" I said because I like your hand.

Inputs pls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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happypcrepair said:
Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".

Do I still have any chance?
Hm. Strike One!...It shouldnt be about you having a chance with her, it should be about her having a chance with you. Your mindset about relationships and dating is wrong and backwards.

Today, I saw this girl again. I held her hand for 10 seconds and started to talk to her and she told me "why am I holding her hand?" I said because I like your hand.

Inputs pls.
Hmmm...Strike Two! read this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043, move on and stop posting.
 

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Ask her if she's ever been kissed before. Then, lay one on her.
 

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really? dude I would be angry if she said that. Why? B/c she is rejecting THIS guy? oh, **** her b1tch as$ is missing out on some hot ****. I will probably tell her, "oh well, i guess you have a bad taste" and move on and end it. I hate stuck up b1tches
 

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The chick i am with..I assume is real comfortable...we miss around from time to time..LOTS of kino. but then there is other times it's like she doesn't want to be around me...sits real far away ect ect.

i dont get her at ALL!

from what i have learned from here...is play of what she does and not what she says.....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm doing lots of kino on her and she seems to be comfortable. She doesn't let me kiss her though. Seems like she's never been kissed before.
 

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You're missing out on building a strong rapport first.

Also, you need to make apply kino naturally, without her even suspecting that you're trying to touch her.

If you feel like there's a SENSE of URGENCY to touch, you're doing it WRONG.

There's never too late, or too early to apply kino.

You must first establish that verbal rapport, then go from there.
 

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i'm still able to kino her hard. ****in flat chested though. She still resist being kissed. Not sure why.
 
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