happypcrepair
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Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".
Do I still have any chance?
Do I still have any chance?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
not in hell buddy..**** it though push your limits and her boundries...wont hut to try..you'll learn something..if anythinghappypcrepair said:Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".
Do I still have any chance?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hm. Strike One!...It shouldnt be about you having a chance with her, it should be about her having a chance with you. Your mindset about relationships and dating is wrong and backwards.happypcrepair said:Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".
Do I still have any chance?
Hmmm...Strike Two! read this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043, move on and stop posting.Today, I saw this girl again. I held her hand for 10 seconds and started to talk to her and she told me "why am I holding her hand?" I said because I like your hand.
Inputs pls.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.