happypcrepair
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Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".
Do I still have any chance?
Do I still have any chance?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
chrisgoodrich25
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not in hell buddy..**** it though push your limits and her boundries...wont hut to try..you'll learn something..if anythinghappypcrepair said:
happypcrepair
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Today, I saw this girl again. I held her hand for 10 seconds and started to talk to her and she told me "why am I holding her hand?" I said because I like your hand.
Inputs pls.
Inputs pls.
BongDuy
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It doesn't seem like she is comfortable with you holding her at all. I think you could of said something like " idk your hand feels smooth" and then just change the subject.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hidden-Hand
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Hm. Strike One!...It shouldnt be about you having a chance with her, it should be about her having a chance with you. Your mindset about relationships and dating is wrong and backwards.happypcrepair said:
Hmmm...Strike Two! read this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043, move on and stop posting.
Poonani Maker
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Ask her if she's ever been kissed before. Then, lay one on her.
happypcrepair
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what if she says yes?
moneyisking
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really? dude I would be angry if she said that. Why? B/c she is rejecting THIS guy? oh, **** her b1tch as$ is missing out on some hot ****. I will probably tell her, "oh well, i guess you have a bad taste" and move on and end it. I hate stuck up b1tches
The chick i am with..I assume is real comfortable...we miss around from time to time..LOTS of kino. but then there is other times it's like she doesn't want to be around me...sits real far away ect ect.
i dont get her at ALL!
from what i have learned from here...is play of what she does and not what she says.....
i dont get her at ALL!
from what i have learned from here...is play of what she does and not what she says.....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
happypcrepair
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I'm doing lots of kino on her and she seems to be comfortable. She doesn't let me kiss her though. Seems like she's never been kissed before.
You're missing out on building a strong rapport first.
Also, you need to make apply kino naturally, without her even suspecting that you're trying to touch her.
If you feel like there's a SENSE of URGENCY to touch, you're doing it WRONG.
There's never too late, or too early to apply kino.
You must first establish that verbal rapport, then go from there.
Also, you need to make apply kino naturally, without her even suspecting that you're trying to touch her.
If you feel like there's a SENSE of URGENCY to touch, you're doing it WRONG.
There's never too late, or too early to apply kino.
You must first establish that verbal rapport, then go from there.
happypcrepair
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i'm still able to kino her hard. ****in flat chested though. She still resist being kissed. Not sure why.