happypcrepair
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Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".
Do I still have any chance?
Do I still have any chance?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
not in hell buddy..**** it though push your limits and her boundries...wont hut to try..you'll learn something..if anythinghappypcrepair said:Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".
Do I still have any chance?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hm. Strike One!...It shouldnt be about you having a chance with her, it should be about her having a chance with you. Your mindset about relationships and dating is wrong and backwards.happypcrepair said:Hey, I was doing kino escalation and suddenly she says to me "You are too close, stop".
Do I still have any chance?
Hmmm...Strike Two! read this http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043, move on and stop posting.Today, I saw this girl again. I held her hand for 10 seconds and started to talk to her and she told me "why am I holding her hand?" I said because I like your hand.
Inputs pls.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.