I've known this girl for a couple of months now, and we've flirted and stuff and get along pretty well. Altough I've never wanted to make a move or anything, I can tell she kinda likes me. However when I've asked her to dance (like 2 times) she's said No, then a little later goes and dance with another guy. If she's not really interested then I wont care and keep up with my life, but why the mixed signals?
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AdrenalynJunkee
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shes a flirt...
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Who really knows? Gilrs do that. What we see as "signs" of interest are usually just signs of a flirt.
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ok whats girls say is:
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)