I've known this girl for a couple of months now, and we've flirted and stuff and get along pretty well. Altough I've never wanted to make a move or anything, I can tell she kinda likes me. However when I've asked her to dance (like 2 times) she's said No, then a little later goes and dance with another guy. If she's not really interested then I wont care and keep up with my life, but why the mixed signals?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Kinda Confused
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AdrenalynJunkee
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shes a flirt...
floydtheater07
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Who really knows? Gilrs do that. What we see as "signs" of interest are usually just signs of a flirt.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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ok whats girls say is:
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)