I've known this girl for a couple of months now, and we've flirted and stuff and get along pretty well. Altough I've never wanted to make a move or anything, I can tell she kinda likes me. However when I've asked her to dance (like 2 times) she's said No, then a little later goes and dance with another guy. If she's not really interested then I wont care and keep up with my life, but why the mixed signals?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Kinda Confused
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
AdrenalynJunkee
Don Juan
shes a flirt...
floydtheater07
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Who really knows? Gilrs do that. What we see as "signs" of interest are usually just signs of a flirt.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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ok whats girls say is:
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)