I've known this girl for a couple of months now, and we've flirted and stuff and get along pretty well. Altough I've never wanted to make a move or anything, I can tell she kinda likes me. However when I've asked her to dance (like 2 times) she's said No, then a little later goes and dance with another guy. If she's not really interested then I wont care and keep up with my life, but why the mixed signals?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kinda Confused
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AdrenalynJunkee
Don Juan
shes a flirt...
floydtheater07
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Who really knows? Gilrs do that. What we see as "signs" of interest are usually just signs of a flirt.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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ok whats girls say is:
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)