I've known this girl for a couple of months now, and we've flirted and stuff and get along pretty well. Altough I've never wanted to make a move or anything, I can tell she kinda likes me. However when I've asked her to dance (like 2 times) she's said No, then a little later goes and dance with another guy. If she's not really interested then I wont care and keep up with my life, but why the mixed signals?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kinda Confused
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
AdrenalynJunkee
Don Juan
shes a flirt...
floydtheater07
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Who really knows? Gilrs do that. What we see as "signs" of interest are usually just signs of a flirt.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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ok whats girls say is:
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)
-the song was either hard to dance to with a guy
OR
-you LOOK like a bad dancer (thats what girls think)