"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Killed it tonight at the bar, need a little advice though
- Thread starter Fatal Jay
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
its whenever you want to bro. - just not straight away.if theres interest on their part, its not gonna wear off if you call in 3 instead of 5.
Make it 2 days if you have time then. just base it around YOUR life and what YOU have going on.
You have the wrong attitude there- dont want to "ruin it".
take the mindset that when you call - you are giving them a chance to prove to you that they are worth the time and effort from you, that they are more than just pretty faces.
And how about a FR?
Don't start feeling unworthy because they are a "9."
Contact them whenever the fvck you want! Who cares if it doesn't work out? Experiment with it!
Good luck!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
NewAndImproved
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Usually the shorter the interaction, the more swiftly I need to move to keep the connection alive. Meaning, I'll shoot her a text the same night I met her.
With girls that I've really connected with, kiss closed at the very least, I wait a few days.
And also don't get your hopes up. With girls you meet in clubs, you never know what's going to happen once their high wears off. Gotten girls numbers at bar close after a 2 minute convo and had them wanting to meet up the next day. Meanwhile, I've spent a long time with girls, thinking I had it in the bag, only to have them never respond to texts/phone calls.
You never know.